Single for the Holidays — A Memoir

I’m happy being single. Honestly, if I really wanted a boyfriend I wouldn’t have any problem finding one but the holidays can definitely make being single just a tad bit…well…depressing. Over Thanksgiving Holiday I was home in North Carolina with my family and spent a few days with my brother, his wife and their 1 year old daughter, my niece…
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Dating 101: How many is too many? 5 Reasons for Dating Multiple People

Recently I went on an impromptu date. It’s actually been a while since I’ve been on a date. My friend Alicia and I decided to head to Brooklyn for a night of dinner, bar hoping and dancing. There’s this guy, you know the guy, who you always plan to meet up with because you two have amazing chemistry but it…
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My Mr. Big got Married and then Came Back

Let me tell you something I’ve learned about men. They always come back and 98% of the time it’s more for them than for you. Everyone has been tweeting and instagraming episodes and classic lines from the epic show Sex and the City because they just had their 20th Year Anniversary! I can’t help but think… It’s so hard to…
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Who says I can no longer Party in my 30’s?

I had a friend tell me this past weekend that when she turns 40 she’s done going to parties. I told her she can sit at home by herself because my 40 year old fabulous ass will be dropping it like it like it’s hot for as long as I can. I recently celebrated my 34th birthday and YES, I…
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I’m Christian, He’s Muslim and he moved in right before …

A few years ago after getting out of an unhealthy relationship, I was out celebrating my birthday and a very cute waiter gave me his number on a napkin. I thought, what the hell, I’m in the mood for a little fun and I obliged when after chatting for a week he finally asked me on a date. He was…
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The Token Black Girl

Let me preface this by saying if you feel some kinda way about yourself after reading this…good this is for you.  Back when I first started blogging in 2010 it wasn’t for money. There was no money in blogging at that time, it was purely a fun hobby and grew into a way I could meet like minded and creative…
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